Either you haven't noticed those people calling others gay too and what I said about maturity is the answer; your relationship isn't a secret anymore like you think it is; you're giving some vibe that is stereotypically gay like the other redditor suggested; or some other reason(I.e if you drink or use other mind-altering substances, maybe you.
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